If you’ve ever suspected that your husband might have an addiction to porn, and confronted him about it, you’ve no doubt likely been met with denial, (despite having evidence). To make matters worse, on the occasion that he admits it’s a problem, his refusal to take meaningful steps to address it, and anger about it, is very common…
“Denial of a problem or not wanting to get help is a symptom of the real problem and if you have to wait for your spouse to say they’re finally ready, they may never get there,” says Dr. Harry Schaumburg, a sexual addiction counselor.
So, how can you get him to admit he has a problem, take the steps necessary to eliminate it, and most importantly restore your marriage?
It can be tough, as most people with an addiction start out in strong denial, but according to the Turn Around Organization (source), here’s 7 questions that he can ask himself to help him realize whether he might have an addiction or not.
Is he…
1) Neglecting other tasks to dedicate time to online pornography?
2) Frequently choosing being in front of a computer, watching porn, rather than hanging out with friends?
3) Hiding and lying about it, feeling shame around his own online sexual behavior, and/or spending money on chats or premium porn sites?
4) Using porn as a way to regulate emotions such as sadness, loneness, boredom, or even to celebrate a success?
5) A key question is: “Can be this stopped?”. If the answer is no, there might be a problem in there.
6) Is he needing more and more time to watch porn?
7) Is there a feeling of guilt after having consumed the porn?
If after having a deep conversation with your partner, you still feel porn addiction might be affecting the trust and intimacy in your relationship, you’re not alone. Thousands of marriages are being impacted by pornography addiction right now, and admitting the problem is the first step toward getting your marriage restored.
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